"You are dead to me"

Before my mother died she had hurt alot of us, my brother dealt with it by shutting her out. After she died he said to me that she was dead to him long before she died. This past week I went to Montana for what was suppose to be his wedding. Alot of shit happened on both our parts and in the end me and my husband took a bus home. We had a layover in Denver and amazingly my phone worked there. I had a text from my brother "You are dead to me." He knew what those words would do to me and it worked, I am hurt. But there is nothing I can do whats done is done, I am not sorry, I was not wrong and I know from experience that he will never admit to his part. So right now its just about moving forward.